Blogs on Love & Relationships
Know your Worth, King.
Dear Ella, I met a young lady last November, exchanged numbers and from that point we talked literally every day via calls and texts. After like a month I noticed…
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Do you Want Someone to Complete You or Compliment You?
What I prefer is a compliment; unexpected additions to my life that somehow make it better than I imagined. Sometimes, you don’t know what you’re looking for until it’s…
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Flying Solo: The Final Break-Up that Sent me on a Solo Trip to P.R.
I can’t remember the last thing he “did” for me. He liked to say that our trip to Jamaica in July last year was my “best vacation” ever because…
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Should I Get Back w/ My Ex?
How many times are you supposed to forgive someone you love? God says as many times as they hurt you, but your bff’s answer is “Never”. But if you’ve ever…
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My Hot Girl Summer (Defined)
The heat is on. Women have never been as powerful as they are today and I’m here for it. The streets have dubbed this summer “Hot Girl Summer”…
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Finding the right time & place.
I’ve been trying to be patient with everything & everyone; from my job to my friends to my boyfriend, if it isn’t one thing, it’s another. Over the years,…
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Who Should Love Who More?
Written by President ELLA
We all have lists of what we want in a relationship and in a partner, don’t we? Even if you haven’t…
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Learning to Say “No”
The first step towards getting what you want, is to stop accepting the shit you don’t want. But that’s easier said than done, I know. In order to be…
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How Vacation Saved my Life
Written by PresidentELLA
Nothing has kept me sane in the past year like traveling. At this age (if you don’t know how old I am, you won’t know),…
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Leaving The “Petty” Behind
I’m not perfect because I’m petty. “Petty” is uncapping the syrup bottle and doing pirouettes in the kitchen because he thinks he can get get rid of you easy…
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We Keep Breaking Up Over Little Things…
“You have anger issues,” he likes to tell me. But.. No, I’m just not happy as I should be.
I don’t know if it’s over. As of this…
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Are you clingy?
PresidentElla‘s Thoughts:
I’m definitely clingy. I know this because he just told me I am about an hour ago. Until just now, I’ve been trying to fight admitting…
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Rainy Days Ain’t Got Nothin on Me.
Written by @PresidentElla
When you’re fighting a winning battle, you rarely feel the scratches through the blows. While I was with Timothy, and while I waited for our…
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Quick Show Out in Atlanta, GA
Written by President Ella
My stay was perfect in its simplicity: I was there to see my friend, but I’m always working. I booked myself a…
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What are you Afraid of?
Written by PresidentELLA
I’m afraid of not being afraid enough. I’m the type of person who confronts battles alone and face first. I would be the type…
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Have they shown you who they are?
Written by PresidentELLA
I don’t think he has a girlfriend. Or children. But he could be lying, right? They’ve lied before. Or… maybe he hasn’t told me because…
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Do you think you’re too good?
“You think you’re better than everyone,” they often say.
“No… But you obviously think I think I’m better than everyone. Why is that?” is always my reply.
What Do You Do When It Hurts?
Written by PresidentELLA
I woke up shaking. There was a pillow under my head and the dog was looking down on me from above on the bed. “What happened,”…
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Is it Time to Try Something New?
Written by ELLA
I get really bored, really fast. While I enjoy stability (mostly financial), I just don’t think my life is supposed…
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Do you want to have kids?
Written by @PresidentElla
“I can’t wait to have kids,” he told me as I sat trying to dry myself from a water balloon fight that could make me step…
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What’s the most difficult part of being in a relationship?
Written by @PresidentElla
If there is one thing that gives me a hard time in a relationship… it’s my own mind. The worst, most testing question is…
Keep readingHow long should you wait on love?
Written by ELLA
I should start off reminding you that I’m not perfect. I have some really bad days and but a bunch of really beautiful ones. I didn’t expect to get into…
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Are you a “Boss” or just “Bossy”?
Written by Ella
I love this campaign Bey is a part of, especially because she’s teamed up with such a powerful cast: Condoleeza Rice,
Admitting my Fear of Love
Written by Ella
I’m not afraid of love. I’m more afraid to miss out on it. I don’t think I’m alone in that, that’s why we end up…
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Why am I Single?
“You’ve known me two days,” I said plainly.
“It feels like forever,” he bullshitted. His last relationship “ended” this passed February. He’s an Aquarius who’s dated two Aries’…
Keep readingCan you Make Someone Care?
“I told her, that even though it’s her birthday… it doesn’t really affect anyone else. It’s
not a holiday. And that’s what I said, cuz that’s how I felt,”…
Keep readingWhen is it Time to Quit?
If I haven’t made a complete fool of myself, I’m probably not done. I can’t say that works for everyone, but you’ve got to decide which risks you’re willing…
Keep readingHow do you Know it’s Right?
Easy answer: If it’s right, it can’t be wrong. By definition. *shrugs*
Life is simpler than we think. Sometimes, you’ve just got to submit to the reality of what…
Keep readingIs that your man?
5.16.12
Exactly one year ago I thought….
That’s not my man… because he’s not. So every time I want to do for him, I have to sit back and…
Keep readingHow do you stay patient while dating?
We rush into things when they’re perfect, and that’s what ruins everything.
I’ve realized that I actually don’t know anything and neither does anyone else. We barely know ourselves,…
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